The thing is, being in a situation ship is actually one of the most challenging dynamics to remove yourself from.

It can feel fucking impossible. It's not always as simple as just cutting someone off most of the time.

You know when your friends just say, cut them off, they're toxic, they're not good for you,

they're not healthy for you, just move the fuck on,

you're gonna find someone better, just move the fuck on.

You're gonna find someone better, there's so many fish in the sea.

Well, on the outside, that obviously seems obvious.

That might seem like a very obvious thing to do.

When you know someone is toxic,

obviously this person isn't right for you,

you know you deserve better,

but when you've already formed an emotional bond or attachment to them and you've most

likely slept with them and you've been going on dates with them and you're cuddling with them and

you've spent time with each other's families maybe and you have that intimacy with this person,

it's really not always as simple as just high and dry cutting it off and moving on

with a smile on your face the next morning. Now, for those of you who are into astrology my Venus is

in Pisces which is a water placement which is all about sacrifice and

attaching yourself to people that needs saving. Pisisees is all about being the savior and really falling deeply in love with the people who need love the most, but often can't reciprocate it in the same way.

I don't really know if it's an astrology thing because I think this will actually

apply to a lot of people and it'll be something that resonates with a lot of people listening right now,

but it's so easy to self-sacrifice when you are attached to

someone when you're deeply emotionally invested in someone even if they're not

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