How to Get Clear On What You Actually Want

Do It Scared® with Ruth Soukup

Ruth Soukup

Self-improvement, Business, Health & Fitness, Education, Entrepreneurship

4.8 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Join me LIVE for a powerful 5-Day Virtual Event designed to help you step into the best version of you. The life you want is actually so much closer than you realize. In just 5 days, you'll map out a vision so clear you can feel it, then walk away with the plan in hand to actually make it happen. You’ve spent years showing up for everyone else—at work, at home, and in every corner of your life. But somewhere in the middle of all that doing, you forgot who you are, or what you want. You forg...

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0:00.0	You know what's crazy? Most of us spend way more time planning our vacations than we do planning
0:06.3	our actual lives. We'll research restaurants and hotels and create detailed itineraries for a
0:12.7	five-day trip. But when it comes to the next five years of our lives, we just wing it. We drift.
0:20.6	We hope that it all works out. And then we wonder why we feel
0:25.0	so stuck or unmotivated. But what if the problem isn't that you don't have goals, but that you've
0:32.0	never actually given yourself the space to think about what you really want? Well, that's exactly what we're going to talk about today.
0:43.3	Welcome to the Do It Scared podcast.
0:45.7	I'm your host, Ruth Sukup, and each week on the show, we will talk about how to face
0:50.0	your fears, overcome obstacles, and most importantly, how to take action and create a life you
0:56.7	love. Hey there, and welcome back to the Do It Scared podcast.
1:18.1	Once again, my name is Ruth Sukup, and I am here to help you create a life and business you love.
1:24.9	And I don't know about you, but this is the time of year when I start thinking a lot
1:30.2	about goals and about what I want and making my plans for the coming year, both for my personal
1:36.4	life and for my business. And I love goals. I love goal setting and I love planning and I love
1:42.4	making lists and I love thinking about the future, futuristic, I think is one of my top strengths. I love thinking about and I love planning and I love making lists and I love thinking about the
1:44.7	future futuristic I think is one of my top strengths. I love thinking about all the things that I want
1:48.8	to do in the future, right? Honestly, I've always been that way. But here's what I've noticed
1:56.2	and maybe you've noticed this too. Most people's goals don't actually work. They set them with the best of intentions and then by February, sometimes even earlier, they've already completely given up. And maybe I got a little judgy with this, right? Because for a long time, I thought the problem for most people was execution.
2:18.5	Like people maybe just weren't quite disciplined enough or they weren't motivated enough
2:23.0	or they didn't have a good enough system or a good enough planner.
2:27.3	But I've kind of changed my tune a little bit on that because after working with thousands
2:32.0	of women over the last 15 years, I've come to realize that
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