So you're reached out to us Sharon because there was something that you're you're struggling with right now.

Tell me a little bit about that. So I'm 38. I've never had a boyfriend,

but I would very much love to be married.

So just to make sure I sort of understand, so you're 38 years old.

I think it's safe to say based on what you've told me that you haven't had sex with a man.

Have you?

That's correct.

Have you ever kissed a man?

I have not.

This is how to and I'm Charles Stuhig. A few months ago I got an email from a listener that caught me a little off guard. The subject line read,

38 and never been kissed. The writer of the email said she realized that to most

listeners this is kind of weird. She wrote, and I'm quoting her here, it's a bit

weird to me too. Listeners, meet Sharon. I'm originally from Michigan. I've

been down here in Nashville about a year.

I'm a nurse over at Bandy.

And tell me a little bit about your relationship background.

It's very short. I went to a large high school and there were lots of cute boys but I never dated I was never I never was asked out and no one ever asked me on a date and and I'm fairly

traditional and how I approached dating and so I wouldn't have been inclined to ask anybody else out and so college was very similar.

I went to a small private Christian school and there was not a lot of casual dating it was almost like oh I

think I want to marry you so let's go on our first date and so I didn't go to college to get

married but I just kind of assumed it would happen as a byproduct.

Like I would get a degree and a husband.

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