How to Find Good Guys on Apps

Mindful Muslimah Speaks

Self-improvement, Education

4.8 • 851 Ratings

🗓️ 20 April 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Dating apps for Muslims require a completely different approach than what most women are taught.

Today, we explore why apps should be a brief stopping point rather than a destination—and how to avoid the common mistakes that keep quality matches away while draining your emotional resources.

- Staying on apps too long is emotionally dangerous and a time suck

- Men don't treat women the same when they appear unprotected on apps

- Most women unknowingly project the wrong energy and turn good men away

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0:00.0	Let me guess being on apps is exhausting.
0:02.9	In fact, you are so tired of guys on there who are not religious, maybe not even praying.
0:08.0	They're just talking to you forever.
0:09.3	And it's just honestly getting you nowhere and you've spent way too much time in there.
0:13.8	You don't even want to be on there in the first place.
0:15.6	Maybe you've even deleted it because you have to take a break and then put it back,
0:19.8	but you're still getting nowhere,
0:21.3	the same kind of guys, right? But here's what nobody tells you about dating apps. They're meant to be
0:25.9	a place to fish, not swim. Most of you are swimming. Sorry to say. And you know what, actually,
0:31.6	the longer you stay in search, because I know you feel like asking them a couple more questions
0:35.2	just going to do it, the further into the rabbit hole you go. There's a way that's way better, way faster and more effective. Besides, staying
0:42.9	on the app is causing you a lot of emotional and psychological drain. Let's face it, you can't just
0:48.2	keep deleting the app and putting it back forever. Now, I mean, you probably experienced some
0:52.1	excitement or even just nervousness when you
0:54.4	first downloaded the app thinking maybe this is going to be it. And then the longer you're on
0:58.3	there, you're like, ick. Like, is this the only way to get married this day? I'm just crying inside.
1:04.5	In the next few minutes, I'm going to share the biggest app mistakes and the simple shift to
1:09.1	fix it because I'm going to be really honest. Most of you
1:12.1	are on there wrong. Totally wrong. And inshu'll ta'a'all I'm going to explain the way that we
1:16.8	have taught thousands of women to actually find men because yes, you can't use the excuse that
1:21.3	the app is broken. The men are broken. I'm going to tell you it's deeper than that and
1:26.6	you're probably doing something
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