Good morning gorgeous. How are you ladies doing this morning? I hope you're all doing wonderful for those of you who are new welcome to my channel. I'm Dr. Daff and if you're returning welcome back. Today we are answering questions that you

ladies submit and we have a question about having feminine friends. So I want you

to go ahead and sit back, get something to drink get something to right with and let's talk about this.

Good morning. I have another question. How important are feminine mentors? I'm mostly always by myself with my kids when I'm not at the gym or playing sports and although I'm doing it with other women, they are alpha women like I am. I don't

have feminine mentors, someone whom I can get advice from, correct me when I'm being too masculine, look up to,

and be friends with. I get envious of girl groups I see together and I feel as though I could never be a part of something like that. I have been

rejected the most by other women. Even if I make changes I feel like other women

don't like me or I don't fit in. This leaves me feeling I'm not like them and not part of the woman group, but I am because I'm a woman.

How do I find feminine friends? How can I bring femininity to my favorite hobbies like sports, football, and weightlifting, and shooting?

I realize that my interests don't match those what is considered feminine, like cooking and hosting, etc. Why do athletic women get looked feminine like

cooking and hosting etc.

Thank you, Chandra.

Thank you, Chandra.

Thank you so much for your question, Chandra.

So we as humans all have a very strong desire for connection. It's so important for us to be able to meet people and feel a sense of love and a sense of understanding and be able to share our stories with one another.

So having friends as women is so important in terms of your emotional well-being, in terms of your emotional well-being in terms of your overall health.

And I know so many of us do struggle to be able to find women that we feel are

reflections of us and are able to resemble the kind of women that either we are or that we want to be.

And I've heard a lot of ladies say that they struggle to even find women friends, that all their friends are men, but men have this sort of blockage.

A lot of times when issues come up, they kind of have this like masculine way of just kind of getting over it without really understanding the depth of the issue and women tend to really be able to do that.

But as a feminine woman, there are also traits that feminine women carry that are a little bit more difficult to find.

And that's simply because there aren't that many real feminine women in the society anymore.

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