Good morning gorgeous. How are you ladies doing this morning? I hope you're all doing

wonderful. For those of you who are new to my channel, welcome I'm Dr. Michelle

Daff and for those of you who are returning, welcome back to the Dr. Daff show.

We're answering a question today about being feminine on the outside and masculine on the inside.

So I want you to go ahead and sit back, relax, get something to drink, get something to write with,

and let's talk about this.

Hello, Dr. Michelle.

I've been wanting to message you for a while now.

I want to say I'm a huge fan of your YouTube channel, and I think you're an amazing person.

I decided to write this email because I'm looking to start my journey, but I feel like there's a major roadblock in me not being able to change.

I am 19 and I grew up with two older brothers and a dad my entire life all very

sporty and masculine. I do have a very feminine mother and a little sister so I

was not the only girl. Now in myself what I see when I look in the mirror

is a beautiful, feminine, soft-looking woman. I like to do my hair and makeup and I love fashion and all that good stuff. So I appear to be very

feminine looking. My problem is that I feel like my personality as a whole is very masculine.

I hung out with my brother growing up and most of my personality developed from my brother and his friends. So I run into the issue of being more loud

and aggressive, I would say.

And I worry it's going to scare off an intimidate the type of man

that I seek to share a relationship with.

I try to practice different things that are more feminine, like being calm and soft and smiling more

and being relaxed and still, but I still feel like my personality and humor itself is just very

masculine. I don't know if it's a bad thing or if that's

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