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Good Life Project

How to Feel Like You Matter | Isaac Prilleltensky

Good Life Project

Jonathan Fields / Acast

Education, Wellness, Self-improvement, Midlife, Health & Fitness, Intentional Living, Personal Growth, Living Well, How To

4.5 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2024

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

What if mattering could be the key to living your best life? Psychologist Dr. Isaac Prilleltensky joins us to unpack the profound human need for mattering.


Isaac explains the two components of mattering—feeling valued and adding value. Discover how cultivating mattering through fairness, purpose, and small generous acts can transform health, happiness, work, and relationships. Learn why extremism rises when mattering is lacking, and how finding meaning by contributing to something bigger than yourself is the antidote. Get Isaac’s practical tips for taking responsibility to add value, listen generously, and promote wellness in yourself and society.


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0:00.0

There is no wellness without fairness or worthiness.

0:05.0

So if you want a good life, find ways to promote the three.

0:10.0

Wellness, fairness and wariness.

0:13.0

So here's my question.

0:16.0

Have you ever felt like you just don't matter?

0:19.0

That you could more or less disappear

0:22.0

and no one would notice or care in your work, in your

0:24.8

relationships, in your community, maybe even in your family.

0:28.2

I think most of us have felt that or some version of that, at least on on some level at some point in our lives.

0:35.8

Like who we are or what we do just doesn't matter or at least matter to people that we want it to

0:40.9

matter to, including ourselves. Those feelings of invisibility and

0:45.2

insignificance, they can be deeply discouraging and the feeling of

0:49.8

mattering we know it is critical to a life well lived, which is why I am so excited to share today's

0:56.8

conversation with the world's leading researcher on Madering, Dr. Isaac Bertensky, inaugural chair of community well-being at the University of Miami.

1:06.7

Over his prolific career, Isaac has explored the concept of mattering and how it affects our

1:12.2

ability to live good lives.

1:14.4

In his research and writings he has identified two core components of mattering, which we dive

1:19.9

into pretty extensively in this conversation.

1:22.8

As he describes, there is powerful reciprocity

1:26.4

between feeling valued and being inspired to step up

1:29.5

and contribute value to the world.

1:31.7

Mattering fuels or health, our happiness, our purpose, and so much more.

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