Hi everybody. Welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. Today we're going to be talking

about how to believe that you're worthy of attracting a guy for the long term for a committed

relationship and how to

influence him to believe that too. So let's start out with the beliefs that you need to have to

feel worth attracting a man for a relationship. So a lot of times with one-on-one clients,

what they tell me is that they basically feel like a

relationship would be a good idea for them, but not for the guy that they're dating. And a lot of

the times, they don't even realize that they're doing this. So they're saying things like, well,

why would a guy want commitment with me? Then he'll just feel restricted and eventually

he'll get bored and then he can't date other people and he won't have his freedom. And you want

a relationship because you think that it will solve something internally within you, like make you

more happy, give you connection and passion and joy with another person and companionship. But when you think

about a relationship for him, you're only thinking about all the negative things that he will get

as a result of committing to you. And that's the same as like a salesperson thinking about all the

money they'll get and all the money, all the things that they can do with

the money that you give them if you buy from them, but knowing that the product is really

shitty for you and not a good fit at all. Like, how effective are you going to be as a salesperson

if you approach it with that mindset? So we need to get really confident in the idea that having a relationship

wouldn't just be amazing for you, but would be like the best thing that ever happened to him.

So the first belief that you need to have is that dating you is only 10% of what is possible.

And committing to you unlocks the other 90% of joy, passion, freedom, fun,

amazing experiences, deep connection, love, friendship, conversation, all the amazing things

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