I want to talk about exploiting men.

I think people are scared to have this kind of discussion because it sounds very vapid and it sounds very mean and unladylike to discuss exploiting men. But as somebody who has come to understand the

reality that men will never feel bad about exploiting women for their sexual availability,

I have become very comfortable with using men.

I'm going to be using the phrase exploiting men

and the phrase using men interchangeably.

The phrase exploiting is not used in this conversation in the context of abuse or

overriding someone's consent. I mean exploiting as in taking advantage of an opportunity that has presented itself,

just like how men take advantage of the opportunity to have sex with you

if it means that you think you're going to have a stronger connection with them.

So this is essentially going both ways. If a man can do it,

then I will too. And this matters to me because a lot of people would argue two wrongs don't make

a right. But I'm not trying to make it right.

I'm trying to make things right for me.

I don't give a fuck about two wrongs making it right or a wrong.

I'll give a fuck about making things right for me.

This needs to work for me, okay?

Because if you're trying to lead with, oh, justice and fairness for all,

you're going to get got.

You're going to get got.

Do not getting got means...

That means being played.

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