It's always your reaction.

Think about it.

I've got problems, you got problems.

Everyone around us has problems.

My goodness, heaven forbid, open up the newspaper or watch the news,

the whole damn world is falling apart.

The question is though when you experience a problem, whether it's a big problem or a little problem,

how do you respond?

How do you react?

I remember years ago sitting down with Wayne Dyer and Wayne saying you know Tom here's what's interesting in life when you squeeze and

Squeeze an orange you don't get apple juice and I remember thinking to myself what what are you talking about? He said,

Tom, think about it. Every day in life we get squeezed, you get squeezed by a

buyer, you get squeezed by a seller, you get squeezed by a friend, your

spouse squeezes you, your kids squeeze you, hey can you call me out of school, oh my God, I got an F of my paper, like we're always

getting squeezed metaphorically. The question is what comes out of you

when you get squeezed by the world and life and experiences. I'd ask you to consider this

that how you feel on the inside is how you radiate on the outside and when Wayne

Dyer said to me when you squeeze an orange you don't get apple juice what he was saying was

look if you are full of doubt lack limitation if you're full of stress anxiety

bottled up just waiting to, that smallest little squeeze

is gonna cause you to explode, to react.

Probably on the wrong person.

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