I used to try to change everyone or lecture them.

Can't do that, the kids for sure.

Now all my focus is understanding.

Tell me why you do that.

Like I want to know what happened to you when you were a kid.

Why are you so angry?

I want to understand so I can pray for your happiness.

Pray for your reconciliation, your resolve.

You feel good about it. It's okay.

Now that I hear you, it's okay now I hear you it's cool man I

appreciate that anyone that trolls me you'll see it all the time on my

bums man I literally they freak out but I'm like please here's my cell phone number I just I appreciate what you're telling me I just want to understand why

Can you please call me? 90% of people will never ever call and the 10% that do are already apologetic when they call, man I was having a bad day,

oh okay I understand that.

Or I was trying to get your attention, oh cool it works, how can I help you?

Right? I mean, whatever it is.

But understanding and appreciation,

appreciation's praying for someone's happiness,

you're adding value to them.

If everybody's happy, imagine what this world would be like.

Why would you ever attack somebody else?

The invulnerability of life is vulnerability.

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