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The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

How to Deal with Haters and Negative People | Mindset Monday

The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

Tom Ferry

Education, Self-improvement, Business

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2019

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

No matter what you do life, there always will be people who will doubt you or go against you. They're going to criticize every word you say and every move you make. Some people just thrive on putting others down. One of the most motivational things anyone can tell you is: "You'll never succeed." For show notes and more information visit: https://tfi.media/2JeIOa7

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0:00.0

Once you decide what it is that you want, you just got to get really comfortable the fact that there's three different kinds of people on the planet, right?

0:07.0

There's the people that really don't care, like they're just in the gray area, they don't support you, they don't hate on you.

0:12.0

You got your supporters, your fans,

0:14.0

the people that love you, the people that truly in their heart of hearts want you to do well.

0:17.0

You need to love on them. You need to be grateful for them. You need to go out of your way to thank them through random acts of kindness for being a fan, a cheerleader, a supporter

0:25.8

of you, your dreams, and your cause.

0:28.7

But the real secret sauce, like the real motivation, what fires me up more than anything else is the

0:35.0

haters and the doubters, the people from my past that can't believe I'm already here and

0:40.5

they're absolutely committed to just trash talking and telling me there's no way I can do it.

0:46.0

When I make a mistake, they're the first ones to let me know.

0:49.0

When I screw something up, they can't wait to post it on social media.

0:52.0

But guess what? I thrive on those people.

0:55.0

I thrive on the haters. At this point in my life, it's about acknowledging that their misery,

1:01.0

they're upset,

1:02.7

their disappointment in their own life,

1:05.1

they're just channeling that at you, right?

1:06.9

Because you're not doing something.

1:08.1

You're about helping people.

1:09.1

You're about moving things forward.

1:10.6

You're setting goals.

1:11.3

You're going for it.

1:12.3

Yeah, do we screw up? Yeah, do we get beat up? Absolutely yes.

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