I'm Jimmy Evans this is my wife Karen welcome to the marriage day podcast we

exist to help every single couple thrive in marriage and today we're talking

about the right one we're actually talking about when you're preparing to get

married now you may already be married but you may know no someone who's

getting married maybe a friend maybe you know a child or something like that

wonderful gift to give them is the book the right one that I wrote along with

Frank Martin but Karen we're gonna talk about this we're gonna go into a

teaching here in just a minute where I'm teaching about the right one but we

have some questions from yours yes I see the title of your book is the right

one is there really oh yes is there really only one woman for me and how do I

find her I am looking I don't think there's only one person you know in a

world full of eight billion people I just don't think there's you know yeah but

for example if a if your parents if you're in high school and your parents

move from Texas to Florida I don't think that if your girls in Texas you have to

go back and get her I think that there are guidelines first of all the

Bible says don't marry an unbeliever and then secondly so if you're dating a

believer the second thing is do you share the same values is that person are

you attracted to that person you know are you willing to commit the person that

how much do you have in common I was talking recently to a woman and it was

she's a Hispanic and she was dating a white guy and she was asking about

interracial marriages I said there's nothing at all wrong with people marrying

within the races among races I said the issues culture is if you're

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