It's probably going to take a guy who's not your type to make you happy in your love life.

Recently, I released a video on my Instagram about that concept, and this thing has been a hit.

So Gary and I thought today we would talk about how to actually date a guy that's not your type.

Because all you ladies seem to agree, your type hasn't really been working for you.

So maybe it's time for a little bit of a shift.

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high value

men, date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you dive

into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology,

and our own personal experiences.

Your host today are myself, Adam Laudalche, a professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies,

and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship

scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share

with a friend and enjoy. Yeah, I mean, something any of our clients would tell you. There's

certain things I say a decent amount. Friendly reminders that I repeat somewhat often. One of my favorites is if what you're

doing worked, it would have worked by now. It's just because, and it's like this is not, I say

this to myself about a lot of things too. It's like you kind of get yourself stuck in a rut. And it's like,

wait a second. Like I know you like doing this thing. But if this worked for you, it would have

worked already. And it's like, it's just a little wake up call to shift things, step out of your comfort zone a little bit, and do something a little bit different. And what I love about this is I'm not surprised that that Instagram reel that you put up is doing so well because you hear from our clients all the time. They'll say like, Gary, I don't know

with this guy. It was not. I didn't want to. I didn't really want to. But I did because he didn't

seem like the kind of guy usually date, but I did. And he's amazing. Like, yes. Yes. And it's,

I get the resistance. It's like, hey, you've kind of have this thing. And I've heard pushback from our clients, things like, you know, the heart wants what the heart wants. I know what I like. Right. I've always had a type and I can't imagine being with any other type of guy to which I always say, well, that's what I'm here for. That's what Adam's here for. That's why we do what we do is to push you a little bit outside of what you've been doing in the past to find this future that you haven't found quite yet.

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