How To COMPLETELY CHANGE Your Life In 2023 (My Process For Achieving Goals) | Tom Bilyeu
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🗓️ 16 January 2023
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Do you feel like you’re holding your life back? You envision all the cool things you could be doing if only you could make this one thing happen. If you could figure out how to execute on this brilliant idea you have that you know will change so many lives then your life could finally change for the better. The problem is you either don’t have the clarity you need to make progress, or you don’t want it badly enough, or you’re overwhelmed thinking about everything it takes to get there. A lot of people are fighting for their excuses and fighting to hold onto all the reasons people like them living in situations like this just can’t get a break.
There’s never enough time, never enough resources, and even when they start, it eventually gets boring AF. Is that you? 92% of people fail to achieve the goal they set for themselves. In this episode Tom is breaking down for you exactly what you need to know to be part of the 8% that succeed in achieving their goals. This is the most detailed and most comprehensive breakdown of how an ultra successful entrepreneur like Tom learned to optimize his time to execute at the absolute highest level, day after day after day.
Take notes and get to work on: How to use your time to transform potential into skills Push through the boredom that achieving your goals demands Define who you want to become and what rules and habits will make it possible Master consistency and follow-thru to see your goals to completion Realize that you need to fail and risk embarrassment to accomplish big goals
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| 0:00.0 | It's become so bizarre in society where we are celebrating people that are not pushing their |
| 0:05.5 | physical limits. And I'm just telling you right now, I don't pass any moral judgment on anybody |
| 0:09.3 | that decides that they don't want to do that. But I will tell you 1,000% you are holding your |
| 0:14.3 | life back. |
| 0:17.7 | The reason most people fail to achieve their goals is twofold. Number one, they don't have a |
| 0:24.4 | sufficient level of clarity. And number two, they don't want it badly enough. The statistic is that |
| 0:30.5 | 92% of all people that set a New Year's resolution fail to stick with it. The way that you go from being in the 92% |
| 0:38.8 | to being in the 8% is by having a freakish level of clarity and building so much desire in your |
| 0:45.9 | life that nothing could stop you even if it tried. This is what you need to do. The clarity piece is |
| 0:52.0 | really the most important thing that you can have in your life. And most people |
| 0:55.4 | have a really vague sense of clarity. But because they can say in a sentence something like, |
| 1:01.5 | I'm going to win a gold medal, they think they have the clarity that they need. But the question |
| 1:06.3 | I would ask somebody that told me that they wanted to win a gold medal, is a gold medal in what? |
| 1:12.0 | The Olympics? Yes, Tom, I want to win a gold medal in the Olympics. Amazing. Which event? |
| 1:17.7 | Swimming or tennis? Swimming, fantastic. The breaststroke, the freestyle medley, what's it going to be? |
| 1:24.2 | You have to get so specific with your goal that you know what to do with the |
| 1:30.3 | next 15 minutes of your life. Ultimately, success, accomplishing a goal, seeing things through, |
| 1:37.0 | all come down to what you're doing with your time and what part of your potential you're turning |
| 1:43.4 | into actual usable skill set. |
| 1:45.8 | The only way to know how to spend your time transferring your potential into skill set |
| 1:50.8 | is to have a truly granular level of clarity. You cannot stop at the high level, |
| 1:57.1 | and you can't do what a lot of people do, which is they, as the Brits say, they waffle. So when they're describing their goal, they either say something like, I want to win a gold medal, which we just covered as hopelessly vague, or they say something that's even worse, which is, you know, I really want to do something great with my life. I know that I'm capable. You know, I was really athletic when I was a kid. And I know that if I applied myself, I could probably really, you know, recapture what I was doing. That's how most people describe what they want to do in life. It is terrifying. You need to be able to state what your goal is in a single sentence with no commas, parentheticals, run-ons. |
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