"How to Catch a Cheater"
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 6 April 2023
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Summary
Unfiltered: Anonymous joins the podcast to share her healing process from being cheated on, including what steps she took to recover and what finally led her to getting back out there. We hear how she meets her next boyfriend, how he's the polar opposite from her ex, and what green flags he gave off. She share how the relationship unfolds, suspicions she has along the way that he may be cheating, how he reassures her that he isn't, and why she stays. We talk about going through someone's phone, how many times can you give someone the benefit of the doubt, and why being cheated on is not about you. Lastly, we discuss how she's come to terms with her past but doesn't believe that just because her two exes have cheated on her does not mean that every other person she dates will.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Honestly, it just shattered the whole image. |
| 0:08.6 | I used to think of him as like this person that could like never, ever heard me. |
| 0:13.1 | And I saw those messages. |
| 0:15.5 | And my heart just broke. |
| 0:17.2 | Hey guys, it's Alana. |
| 0:18.2 | And you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered. |
| 0:21.9 | It's Thursday. So that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes |
| 0:26.7 | shocking, and always unfiltered experiences. Think you're alone out there? Think you're the only one |
| 0:32.0 | whose ex hooked up with your mom or whose last date ended up being a catfish. Think again. |
| 0:39.6 | So I'm anonymous. I came in recently on an episode and I discussed my one of my past relationships, my two years where my ex-boyfriend was his ex-girlfriend the whole time, basically the whole |
| 0:56.8 | time we're together. And yeah, that was... Listen, I'm so excited to have you back. Like, on the spot, |
| 1:05.1 | as we were recording, I'm like, hold on. No, I know that there's so much more that we want to talk about and I don't want to |
| 1:13.1 | rush through any of it. Like, this is all important and worth talking about. So thanks for agreeing |
| 1:19.7 | to come back on and to everyone who's listening. I'm equally excited as you guys are to find out |
| 1:25.5 | what happens next in the life of Anonymous. |
| 1:29.2 | Yeah. So it gets better at the end, but there's a bit of a rough patch after that as well, |
| 1:38.3 | because that was not my last bad relationship, unfortunately. So, unfortunately, all too relatable. relatable yeah yeah yeah I think it's |
| 1:48.1 | a charm you yeah you know fingers crossed but um yeah because um as I was saying like last time after |
| 1:57.2 | I broke up with guy number one it was pretty pretty traumatic. Like I didn't want to speak to |
| 2:04.8 | anyone, see anyone for, you know, a good seven, eight months. I was just, I don't know, I was just |
| 2:12.1 | traumatized. I just, I was just so upset, you know, and I just kind of needed to heal very much. |
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