This is the Ed Milach Show.

All right, welcome back to the show, everybody.

Really excited to share this message with you this week and what we're really going

to talk about is changing our thinking.

And I know that that's kind of an over-cooked, over-discussed topic in personal development.

But like most things I share with you, these will be thoughts that you've not heard

elsewhere before.

And so I want to first talk about you and how you define you.

And when someone says, I am a particular way or me, what is I?

Who are you?

And really what you are in your life is you're a collection of memories, you're a collection

of thoughts and memories and stories you tell yourself.

And that's how we define who I am.

When someone says, this is who I am.

What they're really saying is, these are the memories and stories of my life.

And so that's why I believe when we're children, we're a whole lot happier than we are for

the most part than we're adults.

You think about it.

When you're a child, you know, is it freedom that makes you happy in life?

Probably not because when you're a child, you don't have a lot of freedom.

Someone tells you when to get up, what to wear every day, what to eat, when to go to bed,

right?

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