How To Break Free From Perfectionism | Thomas Curran
Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais
Dr. Michael Gervais
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🗓️ 11 October 2023
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever felt the overwhelming pressure to be perfect in an imperfect world? To excel in every aspect of life in a society that is constantly demanding more?
Welcome to the club.
Thomas Curran has dedicated his career to understanding the complex and often elusive personality trait of perfectionism. A professor of psychology at the London School of Economics, Thomas’s research delves deep into the roots of perfectionism – exploring how it develops and its profound impact on mental health.
His influential TED Talk on perfectionism has garnered over three million views, and his research has reached the pages of esteemed publications like the Harvard Business Review, New Scientist, and CNN – a testament to the urgency of this topic in today's society.
Thomas is also the author of The Perfection Trap: Embracing the Power of Good Enough, a must-read for anyone seeking a deeper dive into the psychology of perfectionism and the pursuit of a more authentic life.
In this insightful conversation, Thomas and I explore the depths of perfectionism. We unravel what perfectionism truly means, why it's on the rise in our society, the hidden costs it exacts on our well-being, and most importantly, how we can work with this pervasive force and find a healthier path to personal growth and fulfillment.
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| 0:00.0 | You know, you can have high standards and strive and be happy and healthy and live a very |
| 0:04.1 | contented life and be successful. It doesn't have to come within security and doubt. |
| 0:09.3 | Only perfectionism graphs those two together. |
| 0:20.5 | Okay, welcome back or welcome to the Finding Mastery podcast. |
| 0:25.1 | I'm your host, Dr. Michael Jervé, by trade in training, a high performance psychologist, |
| 0:30.0 | and I'm really excited to welcome Thomas Curran to the podcast for this week's conversation. |
| 0:36.2 | Okay, have you ever felt the overwhelming pressure to be perfect in this imperfect world that we're |
| 0:41.6 | in? Of course you have. And so there's this underlying drive for some of us to excel in every |
| 0:48.2 | aspect of life, from work to relationships to your craft, to how you show up in social media, |
| 0:53.5 | to how you engage in social settings, even with your family, like this need for perfectionism is |
| 0:58.8 | pervasive. And Thomas has dedicated his career to understanding the complex and often elusive |
| 1:06.1 | personality trait of perfectionism. So he's a professor of psychology at the London School of |
| 1:11.5 | Economics, and Thomas' research delves deep into the roots of perfectionism, exploring how it is |
| 1:19.2 | developed and its profound impact on overall mental health. He had a very influential TED Talk |
| 1:26.5 | on perfectionism. It garnered over three million views, and his research has reached the pages |
| 1:32.9 | of esteemed publications like Harvard Business Review, New Scientist. He's been featured on CNN. |
| 1:38.5 | And a testament to the urgency of this topic in today's society for so many of us, he's also the |
| 1:45.1 | author of the perfection trap. This is a must read. This is for anyone who's seeking a deeper dive |
| 1:52.7 | into the psychology of perfectionism who knows the pains of it is looking for freedom from it |
| 1:59.6 | of a more authentic life, a deeper way of living. It's a nice easy read, evidence-based research |
| 2:06.1 | back. I think you're going to love it. So in our conversation, Thomas and I explore the depths, |
| 2:12.3 | the costs of perfectionism. We unravel what it is, and what it means, and why it's on the rise in |
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