In this episode of the Millionaire Mindcast, Sigurd Vedal is our guest who shares his ups and downs in business and relationships, how did he come up with a very successful dating site business, gives tips on how to look back life with no regrets, and how to build a relationships and love that last forever!

Sigurd is a serial tech entrepreneur, brand Architect, public speaker, investor, relationship and dating expert, growth hacker, the creator of the Marriage Booster, a platform that educates people about the basic principles on how love truly works. Also, he is an experienced Chief Executive Officer (CEO) with a proven track record of successfully creating- and growing numerous brands internationally within the Radio/TV industry and IT / Software business.

This guy has developed a number of well-known international dating sites and applications, allowing him to gain concrete insight into the perfect matchmaking algorithms. He has conducted extensive scientific research amongst the members of his dating sites, allowing him to crack the scientific and psychological code on love and matchmaking.

It wasn’t in Sigurd’s mindset to be an entrepreneur. But always been encouraged by his dad to seek things he loves to do. He started his first studio without thinking of it as a business. Sigurd is all about having fun and pursuing his passion for music while working for a commercial company during the daytime, producing commercials. But because Sigurd wasn’t knowledgeable about business during that time, out of luck his studio thing turns out nothing. He didn’t know what the next step and it lowers his self-esteem. He knows like he needs to regain it to restart.

Luckily, he was hired in one radio station until such time working on different biggest stations in Norway where he learned skills and in-depth knowledge about relationships by doing over a decade of researching people.  Sigurd made the stations succeed with a very promising salary and position; he got privileged of working with top mentors in the world both in market research and branding consultant and with top talent coaches in the US. But he resigned from work with no backup plan.

Sigurd realized that it’s not all about the money but how will you remember your younger days when you get older, all about the happiness inside, and do with what is important to you. Sigurd knows that he has a passion for solving problems and building. Afterward, he builds his own dating business site and got a million members in just a year that sends him to the peak of success and bring lots of money in the pocket.

Sigurd believes that life is all about knowing yourself, visualizing, connecting with your vision not just in the paper but having the feeling and emotion with it. Be thankful for what you have and not be so focused on chasing the future. Start thinking on things that you enjoy doing, and have the vision and a strong passion because it’s fueling the discipline. The best product is usually never the biggest, it’s the first mover. Do what is different from others; analyze people’s psychological and emotional needs..

At the moment, Sigurd is very passionate about relationships and bringing the message to the world that it’s all about fulfillment, and giving back by sharing his marriage booster knowledge and coaching people. Wealth is not by how much you generate money but also by building relationships with the people around you, especially with your partner. Understanding how to build a relationship that works and love that lasts forever.

Know and mapped out your own emotional needs for your partner to know it!

Some Questions I Ask:

• Where did it all start? (02:47)
• How to start the journey of knowing yourself? (22:14)
• What does your morning routine look like? (25:58)
• Why ‘alone-time’ become such an important piece to your routine? (38:03)
• Is there something specific that you see that entrepreneurs struggling in dealing with more than the average person? (54:16)
• What is the next area of your life that you want to unlock and take to the next level? (01:03:51)

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• Sigurd’s first big lesson in life. (05:45)
• The moment where he feels like he is a total failure. (07:21)
• The importance of controlling your emotional state. (08:28)
• Sigurd’s breakthrough moment. (10:10)
• Sudden event that changed his mindset and life. (13:30)
• How to organize own self-reflection. (16:31)
• Reviving what you have – what does it mean. (18:31)
• The big learning stone for Sigurd in the chapter of learning to know himself. (19:03)
• Tips on how to succeed in something and keeps you pushing. (31:45)
• How to calibrate yourself when having a bad day. (33:16)
• How Sigurd figured out new business ideas and evaluates things. (37:27)
• Sigurd’s two main secrets in business. (45:35)
• Marriage booster - how to build a love that lasts forever. (48:13)

Quotes:

• “You can only connect the dots looking backward.”
• “You will fuck up, it’s just about learning.”
• “Literally without me knowing what I was doing was actually for the first time starting to really know myself.”
• “We humans we always chasing something.”
• I’m a builder.”
• “Think about what you want and then you have to feel it.”
• “I used my emotions as a parameter.”
• “The more you practice it, the more intuitive you become.”
• “I do believe that your own self worked and your own mindset on a frequent basis in the right way is extremely powerful.”
• “The more passion you have for something, the more resilient you’ll be to problems.”
• “Passion is not enough you need the discipline too.”
• “Passion sparks discipline.”
• “I also have ups and downs.”
• “The first mover is always a winner.”
• “A flame cannot stand there and burn by itself.”
• “Your relationship will affect your happiness.”

Resources Mentioned:

The Power of Now book by Eckhart Tolle

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Marriage Booster