How To Be Less Submissive with Dr. Hope Hills
Shrink For The Shy Guy
Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach
4.8 • 649 Ratings
🗓️ 20 September 2017
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
How To Stop Hiding And Playing Small & Start Boldly Standing Up
Many people struggling with shyness and social anxiety tend to approach others in a submissive manner. Sometimes it’s submissive-friendly, where we are smiling and pleasing others as much as possible. And sometimes it’s passive-hostile where we are more distant or withdrawn.
In either case, this pattern never gets us the connection and success we really want in relationships and life. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews an incredibly insightful psychologist who teaches all about the relationship between submissiveness and dominance in social situations.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Shrink for the Shy Guy. |
| 0:05.0 | This is the show for you if you are sick and tired of being held back by fear, self-doubt, |
| 0:10.0 | social anxiety, shyness, anything that's stopping you from you being you. |
| 0:15.0 | I'm going to share the most powerful tools and resources that I've been discovering over the last 15 years on my |
| 0:21.9 | journey to eradicate social anxiety and instill confidence, first in myself and then in every |
| 0:28.4 | single person that I meet on my journey. |
| 0:31.0 | You're going to learn these tools and how to apply them in your life now so that you |
| 0:34.8 | can become the most free powerful bold authentic version of you |
| 0:40.3 | hey welcome today's episode of the show today you are in for a treat you're going to be |
| 0:48.5 | learning some some really powerful key insights from just one of the most brilliant minds who's |
| 0:54.1 | been studying the subject for |
| 0:55.5 | 30 years, maybe more. You'll find out in the interview when I speak with her. Our name is Dr. |
| 1:00.9 | Hope Hills. And in this interview, we get into some really fascinating stuff around how you |
| 1:06.8 | relate to others. And it's going to tap into some stuff you might have never really thought about. |
| 1:12.1 | But just a little teaser about what we're going to get into. |
| 1:16.2 | It's going to kind of breaking up into two parts in this episode and the next one. |
| 1:19.8 | And in this one, we talk a lot about this idea of being submissive versus dominant. |
| 1:24.7 | Submissive versus dominant. |
| 1:25.9 | And it might be something you've never even thought about |
| 1:27.7 | those words. Maybe you hear the word dominant and you're like, ugh, sounds like a jerk. And you hear |
| 1:32.2 | submissive and you're like, I don't like the sound of that. I'm not that. You know, but we might not |
| 1:38.0 | use those words in our day-to-day language. And yet, any human you interact with, you are subtly adopting postures of submissiveness or |
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