Today on The Girl Define Show, we are talking about boys, that's right, and single or married,

this conversation's actually for you because we know we had a lot of single listeners who want to

know, how do I be just friends with guys, or is that even possible? Like, guy friendships can be so

complicated, or I don't really have girlfriends because they're full of drama, so all my friends

are guys, and my best friends are guys, and yay! Like, what about all that? Or as a married woman,

you get married, and you're like, so should my friendships with guys change? How should that look?

It's complicated. It's kind of a hot mess, but we do have some insight. We have some personal

experience in this area, and we can't wait to dig into this conversation with you. Let's go!

What's up everybody? Thanks for joining us for this episode of The Girl Define Show. This is

Kristen, and I'm here with my sister Bethany, and we're so glad you're having this conversation

with us because it does relate to every single one of us. In fact, I remember when I had to learn

the hard way when it comes to guy friendships. I was single. I was interested in Zach,

but we weren't officially dating, and there was this guy. He and I became really, really good

friends. It wasn't Zach. It was some other guy, and we became really good friends. We just

are personalities. We had so much fun together, so many of the same interest and hobbies,

and so we would hang out, and I remember thinking in the back of my mind, like, how is this going to

go? How is this going to work long-term? Like, if I get married someday, like, how is this going

to work with this guy? And I remember he and I had a conversation. I was like, okay, we are just

friends. And he's like, yeah, yeah, just friends. And I was like, and we're only ever going to be

just friends, right? And he's like, yeah, yeah, for sure. And so we made this like pack,

like this agreement that we would never fall for each other romantically. And so in some ways,

we both felt like, yeah, this is great. We're free to just be friends. It's a safe place. And,

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