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Welcome back to the podcast, Shaligators. I'm so excited to do this episode. We're just

going to focus on one question and one topic this week, but I think it's a really good

one. It's about not focusing too hard on what you want to happen. Wait, Shalyn, what, come on, what are you talking about?

You always tell us to manifest and visualize.

Yes, I do.

But there can be a time, a tipping point in our manifestation and our thinking about the

future and our hopes and wishes where things shift and they can go to a dark place where it's not that we want something

to happen. We need something happen. I mean, we need it. So I'm going to tell you how to differentiate

between those two things and how to kind of use even what we might deem as sucky circumstances,

disappointing outcomes to our advantage. But first, let's do our mantra.

Let's get our little jaw wiggly tug on our ears. This week, I think we've done this mantra

before, but I really like it. Let go and let flow. I like it. Because it just reminds us like

let life go where it needs to.

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