Welcome to the Girl On Top, Shallon Exo Podcast. I'm your host, Shallon Lester, and you

might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze several relationships and scandals

for lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best

questions you submitted over the past week. Got a love quandary? Head to my website, shallonlester.com

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YouTube for four new videos a week. Welcome back to the podcast, my little chickadees.

This week, we're going to be talking about friendships, how to make them for other people.

Wait, what? I don't know if you guys have dealt with this, but having a guy in your life,

your boyfriend, whatever, who doesn't have a ton of social connections can be really, really

exhausting when you do have a healthy robust social life. And vice versa, how can you kind

of weed out people in your life who are maybe a little flaky or you just realize like they're

not my good fit in terms of friendship? Well, the answer is kind of the same for bolster.

We're going to talk about it. I'm also going to touch on some things I want you guys to

know about therapy. But before we get into it, let's do our relaxation. So our mantra

this week is going to be a little bit different, right? Usually it's like, I am, I am freedom.

What do I, today it's going to be open door strong fence, open door strong fence. I've

got a really nice fence around my property. And I like to leave my door open. I mean,

I don't have a lot of foot traffic in front of my house, but I've always just been like

a person who likes to have their door open, like when I live in California, because it

just, I just feel connected with the nature and whatever. But I have, like I said, a strong

fence. So I can have this openness in my home, because I know I'm protected with my property

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