How to Ask for What You Want
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 3 March 2020
⏱️ 33 minutes
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About this episode
Today we are discussing how to ask for what you want, in marriage overall, and more specifically in the bedroom. This is something many women struggle to do and many women do not even know if they are supposed to ask.
- Why is it so hard for women to ask for what they want, especially in the bedroom?
- What are some practical things that women can do to start speaking up about what they want and need, and keep speaking up until they get it?
- What about women who do ask for what they want, but nothing changes? Or changes happen for a short time, but then drift back toward the status quo?
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| 0:00.0 | This is Bonnie Burns. Do you want to improve your interest in sex but are just a little overwhelmed with where to begin? |
| 0:08.0 | My book, Unlock Your Libido, a 52-week sex drive transformation, was written from my own experience of rediscovery and will simplify the process for you. |
| 0:16.9 | Each week you'll be covered in scripture, given a simple thought to ponder, and a simple exercise to follow. |
| 0:22.5 | You don't need to be fixed. |
| 0:24.0 | You just need to allow yourself to uncover your hidden sensuality. |
| 0:27.7 | Let unlock your libido help you find it. |
| 0:29.9 | Click on the link in the show notes to get your copy today. Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:46.3 | We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth. |
| 0:49.8 | What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage? |
| 0:53.7 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. |
| 0:56.7 | I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife. |
| 0:58.9 | I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 1:01.7 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. Welcome to another episode of sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 1:18.7 | Today we're talking about asking for what you want, in your marriage in general, but especially in the bedroom. |
| 1:25.4 | This is something that many women struggle to do, |
| 1:28.6 | while other women aren't even certain if they're supposed to do it. |
| 1:32.2 | So let's talk about why this is so difficult |
| 1:34.4 | and see if we can come up with some ways to get beyond the difficulty. |
| 1:38.4 | Ladies, why is it so hard for women to ask for what they want, |
| 1:42.2 | especially in the bedroom? |
| 1:44.1 | Because we don't always know what we want. |
| 1:46.6 | That's maybe the first problem. |
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