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The Angry Therapist Podcast

How Silent Disagreement Can Destroy Your Relationship

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 10 January 2025

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Today, John explores the concept of silent disagreements in relationships, emphasizing how unaddressed conflicts can lead to resentment and distance. He discusses the importance of open communication, the need for partners to express their expectations and desires, and the value of creating a safe space for dialogue. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

0:35.2

and I've been documenting my journey ever since

0:37.7

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of at you I come unrehearsed on purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated

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1:40.2

One of the things that kills a relationship, I think this can be one of the greatest crowbars in any relationship, is the silent disagreement. So what is the silent disagreement? Simply put, silent disagreements happen when two people have conflicting beliefs, expectations, or desires, but never openly addressed them.

2:06.7

Instead, they fester beneath the surface, often unnoticed, until they erupt in frustration, resentment, or distance.

2:19.0

So where are some examples of silent disagreements?

2:23.5

And I got to say, you know, it's like a thousand paper cuts.

2:26.2

It's the smaller ones, right?

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