How Relationships Reveal Us — Relationships Series #1

The Art of Accomplishment

Brett Kistler

Self-improvement, Education, Personal Development, Management, Health & Fitness, Business, Mental Health

4.9 • 273 Ratings

🗓️ 2 September 2022

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Brett and Joe address curiosities from listeners about how to approach relationships in a healthy way, riffing on the observation that we find ourselves attracted to the people who most perfectly hook into our triggers, traumas, and projections. Seeing this pattern as a feature rather than a bug, relationships become a vessel for deep healing and personal growth.

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0:00.0	One of the main reasons I think that we find ourselves attracted to certain people and that we find ourselves married to certain people is that we have a instinctual way of finding the person who can trigger us the best.
0:15.9	Welcome to the art of accomplishment, where we explore how deepening connection with ourselves and others
0:20.8	leads to creating the life we want with enjoyment and ease.
0:24.5	I'm Brett Kisler, here today with my co-host, Joe Hudson.
0:30.9	Hey, Brett.
0:31.9	Hey, Joe.
0:32.5	Good to see you, man.
0:33.5	Yeah, good morning.
0:34.5	So we've been getting a lot of questions from people about relationships
0:37.9	and people are kind of asking, what should they do now? How do they tell if they're in
0:44.1	the right relationship? How do they know when to dive in and when to pull back? How do they
0:48.8	know whether or not they're coming from their feelings or whether they're coming from their
0:53.2	trauma? And we haven't had an episode yet on relationships in particular. coming from their feelings or whether they're coming from their trauma.
0:58.5	And we haven't had an episode yet on relationships in particular.
1:01.8	Just to be clear, we're talking about romantic relationships.
1:04.0	Are we talking about like all relationships?
1:05.3	Yeah, well, you know what? Let's go into romantic relationships, but I think it applies to all relationships.
1:09.9	Most of it applies to close
1:11.8	relationships, I would say. Yeah. You know, maybe not like acquaintances, but most of it will apply to
1:17.1	like the bosses that we keep working for or whatever, parents. Yeah. Great. Let's keep it
1:22.9	focus on the romantic. Great. Great. And I think one of the reasons for that is that the context of
1:27.1	these closest relationships, including the romantic relationships, involves a lot of
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