“How Not to Be a Meanie” doesn’t hit the same, does it? “How Not to Act Out Patriarchal Theology, AKA ‘A Chocolate-Covered Turd’” is probably too long. And Andrew Bauman wants to get the attention of men who have bought into domination and called it love, and control and called it protection. The men who feel entitled to women’s bodies and minds and service, all in the name of God. Asses. How does he tackle the problem? One donkey-sized piece at a time. This jam-packed episode includes: - The unavoidable word “ass” - What to do if you’re told your husband’s porn addiction is your fault or no big deal (the aud-ass-ity!) - Why real change isn’t a made bed and an open Bible (it’s actually sooooo boring) - 5 quick, clear, key differences between a safe man and a giant ass - How to love the duck you have instead of trying to make it into a cat (we aren’t quacks, we swear) - What Andrew thinks of marriage intensives/counseling for emotionally abusive men (a hard p-ass) - Why ass-king the question, “Does your husband know how to use a phone?” is more about you than him (and how it will change your ass-essment of your marriage) Listen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/164 FREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.) Desperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com And, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com