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U Up?

How Much Does Sexual Chemistry Matter?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 11 January 2023

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

On this week’s episode, Jared and Jordana start with a recap of Jared’s big week on the dating apps before NYE, including a date he went on in Boca. The first emailer asks if she should let her guy best friend out of the friend zone. They’ve been going on dates and expressed romantic interest, but she just can’t imagine having sex with him. The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a surprising discovery. Later, a male listener who keeps getting the “you’re so great, but I’m not feeling a romantic connection” text after first dates writes in to ask what he’s doing wrong. Is his problem that he’s actually being *too* romantic? J&J finish the episode with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about shower frequency, middle names, and date plans (or lack thereof). Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to the U of podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham and I am Jared

0:08.5

Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. We have had it. It feels like

0:14.0

it's been forever. It does feel like it's been a really long time. We haven't

0:19.1

recorded since the week before the last week of the year. So I haven't seen you in a bit.

0:27.6

And even now you're recording from Boka live from live from the Southern J train studios

0:34.4

in Boka. It is a happy new year to you. It's weird because I was like I was actually thinking

0:40.1

about this the other day. I was like, you know, I forget that we taught we have a weekly talk schedule.

0:47.2

Yes. You know, so when we do talk, I'm like, well, I haven't talked to Jordana forever.

0:52.4

Like I actually had that thought. Yeah, it felt it did feel like a long time. I was like,

0:56.4

what's going on with him? I mean, you have had you been in New York or not really?

1:01.2

I was it. So my flight on Christmas day got canceled. And I ended up like, so I was supposed to go

1:08.3

to Boka before New years and my flight on Christmas day got canceled. So I just like hung out in

1:14.0

the city all week and then went to San Diego for New years and that week between. And then so I

1:19.7

decided to come to Boka after New years. So that's why I'm here now. But that week leading up to

1:25.6

New years, it was like, I mean, I was if I could admit something, I was you can. I was in the

1:33.4

dating app scene. Like I was like, oh, I think I over did it. I think I was like, I'm talking to

1:39.1

everyone. That's the thing I don't know. Like I don't know what level of like, I don't know if

1:44.0

the word guilt is correct. I because I don't like I was I was actually thinking about it. I was like

1:49.2

look, if in my maybe 10 years from now when I'm married with kids or whatever, I would look back

1:56.4

at this time and be like, Oh, that was where my single days. I was just out on the down. But

2:01.6

I but all those times I went out with people I was taking it seriously. I was thinking like,

2:06.4

right. Could this be someone just hang out within the future? Could every time I was on the dating

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