Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to talk about

how many more dates it's going to take for you to meet your person. Before we get into that, I want to let you know about my free guide called copy and paste

texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. The link for that is in the show notes.

And then I'm going to be opening up my second group coaching program very soon. So if you're interested in that,

check out the link in the show notes as well

to book a consult with me and learn more about the program.

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and there were several people who were not able to begin.

So if it's something that you've been interested in or

waiting to hear about when it's open again, make sure you book the consult sooner rather than later.

Okay, so let's talk about this idea of how many more dates you have to go on before you meet your

person. And there are a few ideas I want

to share about this, but first let me explain how this shows up in coaching sessions. So I almost

inevitably hear at some point with many clients, oh my gosh, I've been on so many dates. I've been dating this many years. I've

been trying for so long. Why is this not happening for me? And I'll hear that often also in

consults, like Amber, I've been doing this for so long and it's not working. And my response is

to first distinguish between trying and growing. So I always hear that I've

been doing it for this many years. I've been on this many dates. I've swiped this many hours.

I'm taking all of the actions and it's not working. And what I always say is that there is a difference between

trying and growing. So trying is taking action. It's showing up. You're swiping, you're going on

dates, you're doing the things that people tell you to do, you're putting yourself out

there. And I want you to think of that as the equivalent of when people say, I've been at this

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