Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

How long have you wanted it?

This is a killer life coaching question

that I love to ask whenever someone wants to make a shift in their lives.

Maybe they want out of a relationship or they want to move to another part of the country or the world

or they want to just shake things up and make some moves

and make changes. Big, big significant powerful changes and even smaller, maybe less noticeable or

dramatic changes. Whenever I speak to someone who wants to make a shift it's

almost like I can feel someone who wants to make a shift, it's almost like I can feel their

yearning. I can look into their eyes and I can feel the fact that they either feel the

absence of something or they have a burning desire pulling them forward in a certain direction.

And that is a gorgeous thing. Desire is a beautiful thing and change is a beautiful thing.

I swear so many of our problems could be eradicated if we were more accepting

and understanding that change is the only constant thing in our lives. Look back even a year ago, right? Your life is

different now in small ways, maybe in big ways for others, but change is the only

constant thing. So wanting change, seeking change, it's

natural and it's healthy and it's expansive. But sometimes this is where I can get a little tricky.

So for example, I remember having a conversation with a friend of mine who actually lives in

Sydney, Australia, and she said, you know, I want to shake up what it is I'm doing and I want to do something completely

different. She wants to go into actually like the more dermatology world and she's currently in a very, very different field and I asked her this

question how long have you been thinking about it? She says what, look, if I'm really honest, I've been thinking about it just for a couple of weeks since I met somebody at a barbecue who is like really thriving in this world and she got into it kind of late but it's just like really working out for her.

So she meets someone, she's inspired and she's got this idea, she's got this thought.

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