Welcome to the Unapologetic Man podcast the only podcast. It's all about self-improvement confidence success women in being a man without making any apologies for it.

What is up gentlemen. Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UNP. I really do appreciate you joining me.

And today I am going to give you a no BS prediction of how long it's going to take you. Yes, specifically you to get really good with women. Now this obviously is a difficult question to answer because I don't know you.

I don't know what situation you're up against. I don't know what kind of belief systems you have. I don't know what your current skill set is, but I'm going to kind of give an average so that you can compare yourself against these averages and get yourself kind of an expectation of how long it's going to take you to finally get really good.

It's really effective with women. Now again, this is such a nebulous question. I get asked it all the time and it's like, well, you know, the obvious answer isn't I hate hearing this answer in certain situations and I'm sure you do too.

But it's the old it depends answer because it does depend. It depends on so many circumstances that I can't predict specifically because I don't know you and this is part of the reason I give a free breakthrough session is so that I can tell you exactly how long it'll take.

Either with my help or without my help and of course without my help, it takes a lot longer with my help. It's like a black hole shortcut to get you to those results in the easiest least painful way possible.

But a lot of you guys don't want to get coaching with me. A lot of you guys don't want to jump on that free breakthrough session, which again is absolutely absurd to me, but hey, you're going to do what you're going to do.

And I at the very least do appreciate you listening. So don't think I'm hating on you because dude, like you tuning in, you can be doing many other things with your time.

I really appreciate that. So let's go ahead and jump into it, man. No need to try to put fluff into these podcast episodes, which some guy mentioned on a review lately is like, yo, there's very little fluff and brother.

If you're listening, I appreciate that, man, because I really try not to be the fluff dude, the old cut fluffer because I hate people who do that.

Now, naturally, I have to talk about my NLP coaching, but I try to do that quickly and get on with the damn subject. So let's do that here.

So on average, how long is it going to take a normal dude and average dude to get good with women? Okay. So on average, I'm just going to tell you straight up, takes about one to three years, one to three years.

Now again, it depends on so many circumstances. And I'm going to do my best to say it depends as few times as possible in this episode, but bloody hell does it depend.

Like I'll get on the phone call with dudes and I'll be like, oh my god, this is this guy's going to take me like at least three years, if not five, to get him straight and to get him going.

And I actually mentioned this a lot when I'm on those phone calls with guys, the hardest thing to teach is social intelligence.

So if you're the kind of dude who just kind of rubs people the wrong way, you can't really take social cues, you're not really socially skilled when it comes to even just dealing with other dudes, dealing with your family members, your good friends, those are the hardest cases.

But if you're like most dudes and you know, listening to this podcast, I have a feeling and I have seen that most of you guys are pretty socially savvy when it comes to just simple communication.

Like can I just talk to this dude in a normal conversation where there's no stress, there's no attraction, there's no pressure for him to perform.

Can I just talk to him normally if the answer is yes, then you're going to be on the lower side of that spectrum.

So you're going to be around the potentially three months to one year level, year and a half, maybe going up to two years, if you have like a lot of bullshit in your head, a lot of traumas from your past, a lot of really bad programming, extreme approaching anxiety, stuff like that.

Now of course in my coaching, we target that stuff so we significantly reduce the time.

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