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Good Life Project

How IFS is Healing Trauma & Changing Lives (Maybe Yours?) | Tamala Floyd, LCSW

Good Life Project

Jonathan Fields / Acast

Education, How To, Self-improvement, Business, Health & Fitness

4.63.2K Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

What if those parts of yourself you've been trying to change or silence are actually trying to protect you?


In this illuminating conversation, psychotherapist Tamala Floyd reveals how understanding and building relationships with your different inner parts can transform exhaustion into wholeness, offering insights from her new book Listening When Parts Speak: A Practical Guide to Healing with Internal Family Systems Therapy and Ancestor Wisdom. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, people-pleasing, or perfectionism, this episode provides a revolutionary framework for healing that honors all parts of who you are.


You can find Tamala at: Website | Episode Transcript


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0:00.0

So what if those voices in your head, the ones that sometimes feel like they're battling with each other,

0:06.7

weren't actually a problem to be fixed, but were rather a profound source of wisdom and healing?

0:12.1

And what if the path to feeling whole didn't require silencing or killing them off,

0:16.9

but rather learning to listen to them in a very particular way?

0:21.2

These questions kind of stopped me in my tracks during a fascinating conversation

0:25.0

that really transformed how I think about the relationship between our different inner parts

0:29.3

and things like trauma, healing, and wholeness.

0:31.8

My guest today is Tammala Floyd, a psychotherapist, an internal family system's

0:36.5

lead trainer with over 25 years of experience,

0:39.0

helping people understand and heal through parts work. She received her master's degree in social

0:44.0

work from the University of Southern California and has taught at both the University of Phoenix and

0:48.2

USC. Her latest book, Listening When Parts Speak, offers a revolutionary framework for healing

0:54.1

personal and generational trauma.

0:56.1

One of the things that fascinated me most was discovering how these different parts of ourselves

1:00.0

actually show up in specific places in our bodies and how understanding this connection can lead

1:05.9

to a profound healing. Tamla shared her own powerful story of how her people-pleasing part was actually

1:11.7

protecting a younger version of herself, who felt deeply rejected and how learning to build a

1:16.9

relationship with this part, it just changed everything. The insights she shares about how our

1:22.1

protective parts get exhausted from years of trying to keep us safe. And what happens when we finally learn to unburden

1:29.1

them are really powerful ideas. So excited to share this conversation with you. I'm Jonathan Fields,

1:36.4

and this is Good Life Project. You know, really excited to dive in. I feel like we're having this conversation at a moment where heads are spinning,

1:48.7

hearts are breaking, hearts are breaking open.

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