Hello, lovely humans. I'm Luna Robbie, and you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast of

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enjoy this episode. Welcome to How to Brothel, a go-woo-yourself miniseries. This episode is on

how I turn nervous partners into sex gods, i.e. how I invite partners to become

excellent lovers. The most important thing that I have learned through my experience as a legal

courtesan and years and years of studying sex-related communication, how to invite my partners

at all experience levels to instantly become better lovers. After interviewing hundreds and hundreds

of people, many of you out there, hopefully many more of you, about their sex lives, I have

discovered a crucial common theme. Maybe you've noticed it. People tend to have their hottest,

most memorable experiences when they feel safe. Even the thrill seekers who get a thrill

from strangers, unusual locations, the possibility of getting caught, or other risky behaviors

are able to enjoy those things because they are safe enough within that individual's risk

tolerance. So how do we create that safety while keeping things sexy?

This is the too long don't read if you are looking at the blog, but if you're listening, this is kind of what's coming up.

I have a three-step lover invitation framework.

My brain does work in frameworks like this, like after I learn the information that I'm, it's just, it's interior scaffolding.

I'm not ADHD.

I'm just talking in long, structured paragraphs. It's all a long, long thesis. So, first, get on the same page, check in about emotions, desires, boundaries, and expectations. Second, transition to touching. We got to normalize health and safety check-ins and take it beyond the conversations about STIs. I am very inspired by the practices at the ranches.

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