the virtue. Hey, you want to be supportive of your partner, no matter what unconditionally,

right? Just sometimes you just don't know what that looks like though, and how to help

out and how to support. Well, that's why you have the whole for better for worse in the

vows. Like you take them at their best and you take them at their worst and you try to

figure out a way to get through it. That's not what I'm putting in my vows. For better

for worse. Just for better. Okay. So long as things are cool and we're getting along.

Uh-huh. And things don't get too rocky then we can hang out forever. That's fair. I'm

sure that's I think that's going to go over swimmingly. I don't write that down. That's

a very poetic. So Cassia as a friend, that's kind of going through this right now. Once

to support, but just doesn't know how to do it. It's pretty serious. Yeah. My friends

husband has decided that he is, he's starting AA. He, they don't have problems in their

relationship because of it. It's not sort of like he's not at rock bottom or anything,

but he just kind of feels out of control around alcohol and has decided since it runs in

his family, he wants to try and do something about it preemptively before it's a runaway

train for him. So he has started going to AA meetings and my friend is super supportive

of this like wants to have his back, but she doesn't really know how to help him. Because

he said like you don't need to stop drinking. You don't need to like change what you do.

I don't mind if alcohol is in the house and she wants to follow his lead, but she also

doesn't know if maybe that's not the best idea, but she's kind of afraid of offending

him if she does remove all the alcohol from the house. And so we were talking and she's

like, I don't know how to be a supportive partner to him. Besides being there and being

like, yes, I got you do what you need to do. I'll take you to the meetings. If you,

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