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The Ramsey Show Highlights

How Do We Get Our Adult Son To Do Simple Tasks Around The House?

The Ramsey Show Highlights

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Self-improvement, Education, Investing, Business

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🗓️ 5 November 2024

⏱️ 7 minutes

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0:00.0

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0:06.3

All right. Today's question comes from Dennis in New Hampshire. My adult son was laid off from his

0:10.6

tech job and now works retail while job hunting. We invited him to live with us rent free until he gets

0:16.1

back on his feet. My wife and I enjoy his company. But how do we get him to realize the value of what we're

0:21.6

providing? I've asked him to do a couple of simple tasks to help us out, and his response is

0:28.2

that he's too tired. I can do, I can do tasks, myself with a lot less aggravation,

0:40.1

but the real value is in learning to help out and the responsibility of home ownership. How can he not see the value of doing simple tasks

0:45.5

in exchange for what he is receiving? Oh, no. Because he doesn't have to. It's too late.

0:52.8

Because he doesn't have to. He's grown.. Because he doesn't have to. He's grown.

0:54.4

You don't get to be his daddy anymore.

0:57.3

All you can do is let him get out in the wild and he'll figure it out.

1:01.5

It's too late.

1:03.2

You can't retrain a 33-year-old, honey.

1:08.6

Okay, the key there is that you can't retrain him, but he can learn.

1:12.8

I know, but how can you, you know, he's treating him.

1:15.1

He can't.

1:15.6

This sounds like the guy thinks he's 16 years old.

1:18.0

Well, and I don't know.

1:18.5

How do I teach my child to work ethic?

1:20.6

He's not a child.

1:21.7

I don't know.

1:21.9

Yeah, I don't know if a adult.

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