How Do I Slide Into A Guy’s DMs Without Seeming Desperate?

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 14.8K Ratings

🗓️ 21 August 2019

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

J and J kick off the show with a conversation about sliding into someone’s DMs after you miss the chance to connect on a dating app. What’s the right way to start a conversation via DM? At 26:25 the Awkward Sexual Encounter is all about a guy who played dead the moment after he finished during sex. At 38:45 a listener writes in to ask if it’s safe to have a threesome with her long-term boyfriend. Is there any way to bring in a third person without somebody getting jealous? At 55:00 another emailer asks if she comes off as desperate when she initiates the first date with guys she has matched. Is it important to make guys chase you or is it better to just take charge? At 1:02:45 they finish the show with some Red Flag or Deal Breakers and ask how you should deal with an insincere complimenter. The U Up? LIVE tour is coming to a city near you! Get your tickets before they sell out by going to Betches.co/uuptour Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.9	Hello and welcome back to the U of Podcast. I'm Jordana Aperham. And I am Jared Freed. I got to say
0:38.3	I love doing this show with you, Jordana. But we need, and I love the listeners. I love them.
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1:27.6	an ego stroke. Yep. And the other people know that the podcast is great. But I want more.
1:33.4	I'm insatiable. She's like, he's like a thirsty. In Ariel in the Little Mermaid. Yeah. Where she goes,
1:39.6	I want more. That's me. I don't even know the song you're talking about. She goes, I want to be
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2:01.7	Is that what it sounds like? Yeah. It sounds exactly like that. I want it.
2:05.6	Ariel wants more or so do we? We see it. We like it. We want it. We got it. We see it. We want it.
2:12.3	Maggie, your Instagram story. We need it. I want it right now. We're headed into the fall. The
2:18.8	summer's over. It's over. It's over. It's August 21st. You're sitting there looking. What did I do
2:25.5	this summer? I don't know. Didn't get that boyfriend. Didn't get that girlfriend. I got to the beach
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