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U Up?

How Do I Make the First Move Without Coming Off Desperate?

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2018

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Summary

J and J are back and this week the show’s theme relates to initiating romantic contact with a guy without coming on too strong. At 13:25 a listener writes in asking how to make a romantic introduction with an old college crush who she has always had chemistry with. At 35:50 they talk about their weird sexual encounter of the week from a listener who is wondering if he was gaslighted by a girl who tricked him into thinking he finished sexually without knowing it. At 47:00 a listener writes in wondering what to do about a girl he’s dating who’s hoping for exclusivity, but not a relationship. At 58:30 they take a letter from a listener who is going on a vacation with an ex that she recently broke up with. At 1:05:30 they play red flag or deal breaker including “he/she writes inspirational quotes on their wrists” and “they want to have ONLY joint social media accounts after you get married.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:02.0

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0:03.7

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0:20.7

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0:22.8

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0:27.8

Hello and welcome back to the UUP Podcast.

0:30.1

I'm Drogon Averham.

0:31.2

And I'm Jared Fried.

0:33.4

It is so good to be back with you, the listener,

0:36.8

Jordanna, so it's such a pledge to be here with you.

0:40.0

It's always so great.

0:41.2

It's the highlight of my week.

0:42.7

Highlight of my week.

0:44.2

It's so nice.

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