Today on The Girl To Find Show, we are answering one of the most popular questions that we get from you guys, the sisterhood, and it's this.

How do I know if he's the one?

I remember when I was dating Zach probably four or five months into our relationship, I was asking this question all the time.

Like, how do I know? How do I know if he's the one? Is there a magical sign I should be looking for?

Is there going to be a moment in time where it just like strikes me and I know with confidence that he's the one, how do I know?

And you know this question, right? If you're single, if you've been in a relationship, you've wondered.

If you're dating right now, you're thinking at what point will I know? If this is the one, how do I know?

And if you're single, you might think, I'm never going to know. It's impossible. How do I possibly answer this question?

This is like the biggest question of my entire life. And if you look to the world, there's a lot of popular advice, a lot of dating advice out there on how to discover if he's the one.

But a lot of that advice is bad. It's not helpful. Just look around. There aren't very many relationships lasting the long haul.

How as Christian women, can we answer this question with confidence? How can we know if he's the one? There is an answer, and we're going to unpack that today right here on The Girl To Find Show.

What's up, sisterhood? It's Bethany and Kristen here. And y'all, I cannot believe we haven't taken a deep dive into this question on the podcast.

I know. This is one of the most asked questions. And I can remember so clearly. I mean, I've only been married for three and a half years. So it feels like yesterday where I was in those moments of stress.

It is so hard. And it can be so stressful trying to figure out, like, okay, is this the person I want to spend the rest of my life with?

And you hear people tell you, like, you know, like with a wedding dress, like, you just know when you know, you know, and you're like, that doesn't help me.

And then you hear married people say that again, like, I'm telling you, like, when it comes to a guy, you'll know, like, you'll know when you know.

It's like, give me a something practical. So today we are going to give you, like, a sure fire, like, answer. We are not going to give you, like, when you know, you know, like, I promise that is not what you will leave with.

You are going to leave with biblical wisdom that will help you to know, like, wow, I actually have a process I can work through. I have practical steps I can work through to help me make this decision.

And it's going to feel a lot less mysterious and magical. It's going to feel like, okay, put legs to this.

And then you can hold on to something you can hold on to. We do want to give you something free, though, with this episode, because, you know, if you're, if you're listening to this, it means you're either you are single and you're thinking ahead, you're dating, you're even engaged, or maybe you are a mentor or someone who's married and you have friends who are in this, this place.

So one of the most helpful tools that we can give you is this, you know, question guide that we created called 136 questions to ask in a romantic relationship.

And it's really to help you get to know the heart of the person that you are dating or even engaged to. And it's just an incredible guide with questions working through all aspects of life to really help you to dig deeper to help you see where are they spiritually.

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