It took you years, decades maybe, to understand what you were going through. It’s no wonder your kids don’t recognize emotional abuse for what it is. Especially because they’re wired to trust their dad. They’re wired to need his love. So they still call him good, loving even. They still think you and their dad should be together. You know better. And it’s agony. What now? In this episode: - Why just showing up makes all the difference in your kids’ lives - How divorce is like an earthquake (and how approaching it from a long-term perspective makes all the difference) - The reason letting your kids go actually gives you a better chance of getting them back - Why allowing your kids to love their dad (and feel all the feels) is important for their well-being, your peace, and your relationship with them - How all of this advice lets you lay down the torment and angst over this topic…for good! Listen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/149 FREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.) Desperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com And, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com