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Triumph 111. Dylan, welcome to the program.

Hi, Dr. Laura. It's a pleasure to speak with you. I've been a long time listener for about 20 years and I feel like I've just grown up listening to you and learning from so much from you.

Thank you. Thank you. Yeah, great. How can I help you today?

Well, I'm 31 years old and I've been married to my husband for five months. I'm so pretty much into the woods.

I guess getting to my question before I give you kind of the overall just of what happened. My question is am I overreacting and acting childish?

And so kind of going into what the problem was before you go on you don't for one moment believe you're acting childish.

Adverb. You don't believe that for a moment. You may someone may be telling you that but I don't believe you believe it.

Be honest with yourself. Thank you. I really don't I actually I really appreciate you saying that because I don't I really don't believe that I was.

But going into the problem and he told you you are.

And he told you you are. He responded saying yes, I was acting childish for the situation and how I responded.

Okay. How about he makes a gay slur at you and then says I was only kidding. Would you buy that?

No, no, I would not.

So don't buy this either. Okay.

It's a form of gaslighting. So how long how long did you date him before you got married?

Six months, which is definitely not a good idea. It was definitely moved very quickly.

Nobody ever told you you don't know enough to make this decision with him. Nobody said that. Not your parents, not your friends.

My parents did say that.

And your experience with them the whole duration of your life is that they're stupid?

No, I just definitely made a decision that was immature.

And now I think I am kind of seeing that.

So at this point does it seem clear to you that this man was not a good choice?

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