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U Up?

How Do I Find Closure After An Unexpected Breakup?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 20 November 2019

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Summary

J & J are back and start the show with a conversation about how to avoid getting grilled by your family about your relationship status over the holidays. Is Thanksgiving the toughest time to be single around your family? At 13:50 a listener writes in to ask if it’s okay to have dinner with a friend you used to have a crush on even though you’re in a relationship now. Are old love interests completely off limits for one on one drinks, or should your partner trust you enough to let it go? At 27:40 The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a new hookup uncovering an embarrassing search history. At 45:25 another listener writes in to ask for help finding closure after an unexpected breakup with her long-distance boyfriend. Is it possible to get closure on a breakup if you weren’t the one who initiated it? At 1:01:30 an emailer wonders whether his female roommate is getting in the way of finding a girlfriend, or if it’s just a matter of not having his own place. They finish the show with some Red Flag or Deal Breaker questions, including a conversation about never having attended a wedding. The U Up? LIVE TOUR, presented by Moxy Hotels, is coming to a city near you! Get your tickets by going to Betches.co/uuptour Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:26.0

That's FAUXPAS.

0:30.9

Hello and welcome back to you up.

0:34.1

I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:35.2

And I am Jared Fried and it is such a pleasure to be back here with you, Jordana.

0:39.8

It is. It's uh, nearing the end of November,

0:42.4

which does not have a fucking front of it.

0:44.1

No, this is November.

0:45.9

This is uh...

0:46.8

You're like, don't mess with November.

0:48.4

No, I love November, but also we are in pre-Thanksgiving time.

0:55.0

Yeah.

0:56.1

Oh, this is when people start to get stressed out.

0:58.3

Seeing family.

0:59.6

That's true.

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