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The Mental Healness Podcast

How Did The Narcissist BLAME You For Everything!

The Mental Healness Podcast

Lee Hammock

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2026

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Stop falling for the trap where your reaction to abuse becomes the "reason" for the abuse. Learn how narcissists use DARVO and reactive abuse to convince you that you are the toxic one in the relationship. As a diagnosed narcissist, I’m breaking down the mechanics of the "Villain Flip" so you can stop the second-guessing and start winning.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Boom.

0:02.0

Narcissist blame you for everything.

0:06.0

I know y'all feel that.

0:08.0

I know when I said that statement at the beginning, your hearts just fluttered a little bit, right?

0:14.0

You were like, you know what, Lee, you're right.

0:17.0

The narcissist in my life, the toxic person in my life, always found a way to put the blame on me.

0:24.5

How do they do it so well? What goes on the side of their minds? How do they, are they doing it on purpose?

0:32.4

That's the question that I get a lot. And that's what we're talking about today, y'all.

0:35.9

Of course, if you knew here, I'm Lee Hammack. I'm a diagnosed narcissist. And today, we're talking about the blame game,

0:41.2

how narcissists always find a way to point the finger back at you. No, it's just for instance,

0:47.8

y'all, it's just for instance. Just saying for general purposes, I got to ask a question to the chat.

0:53.8

How did they blame you? How did they

0:57.6

find a way to put it on to you? How? I asked this question on Facebook. I asked it on

1:03.1

Instagram. I asked it everywhere. And there were so many answers that came into play that it was

1:08.9

kind of crazy. It was literally crazy how so many people had a different answer for the same question.

1:16.3

All I asked were the same question.

1:17.8

How did the narcissist make you feel like you were the problem?

1:22.0

How did they make it feel like you or the reason everything is going wrong?

1:26.5

How did they put it on to you?

1:29.6

And so many people like came through.

1:32.3

It had, he had 338 comments on Facebook alone.

1:36.7

And one of the top comments is the person, the narcissist answered, I didn't know how to

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