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How To Not Lose Your Sh!t

How Can We Help? (with Stacey Abrams)

How To Not Lose Your Sh!t

Red Wine & Blue

Parenting, Health & Fitness, Kids & Family, News, Mental Health, Politics

4.7892 Ratings

🗓️ 8 October 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

This week on the pod, we are so excited to share wisdom from the one and only Stacey Abrams. The legendary organizer (and author and entrepreneur and state representative and candidate for governor and Buffy the Vampire Slayer fan…) joined Red Wine & Blue last week for a virtual event. She was so inspiring that we just had to share her words with our podcast listeners too. Katie and Stacey discussed the 10 Steps to Authoritarianism (spoiler: we’ve hit them all) but more importantly, they...

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0:00.0

Part of the way all of these terrible things take hold is that we think we're alone.

0:04.6

And so one of the ways I stay grounded is by connecting with folks, by doing this work, by being in community with people.

0:10.9

Organizing is nothing more than asking how can I help and finding a few people to help you answer that question.

0:27.6

Hey y'all.

0:33.5

Welcome back to how to not lose your shit, a podcast where we figure out how to make a difference in the middle of chaos without losing our shit.

0:36.6

I'm Leponda Cousin, a part-time yoga instructor and self-care advocate,

0:40.6

and of course the chief people officer here at Red One and Blue.

0:44.6

And I'm Katie Paris, the founder of Red Wine and Blue.

0:48.4

Before we can really talk about how not to lose our shit, we've got to be real.

0:52.1

What is making you lose your shit this week?

0:54.9

The partisanship of the last week, the government shut down, having friends that are impacted

0:59.7

by the government shutdown and just like the chaos around the government shutdown. Yeah.

1:04.2

The White House answering machine is saying it's the fault of the Democrats. And it just all

1:09.7

feels so childish. And to me, we had this conversation

1:14.5

when I started and me feeling not political because social things shouldn't be political. And

1:20.2

I feel like people should be entitled to quality and affordable health care. And so that because

1:25.8

that is that the center of this shutdown just feels really silly and chaotic to me. It feels like toddlers are running the daycare. And that's kind of making me lose my shit a little bit.

1:37.0

I mean, this is why people don't like politics. Because when they hear the word politics, they think partisanship, they think

1:45.7

they're pointing, they think just playing games. And this is not a game. Yeah. Real people are

1:51.9

impacted. Yeah. It does feel really scary in this moment. I think to have a shutdown in the

1:58.4

middle of the chaos of all the wreckage right now of Trump

2:04.5

and Russell vote, who the hell knew that we'd have to know who our budget director was

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