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How can I help my LGBTQ+ friends who are in pain because they feel like they don’t belong in the LDS Church?

Ask Dr. Julie Hanks

Dr. Julie Hanks

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6734 Ratings

🗓️ 2 January 2024

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

In this episode I talk with Ben Schilaty and answer the question “How can I help my LGBTQ+ friends who are in pain because they feel like they don’t belong in the LDS Church?” Ben’s question stems from his own experience of being a gay member of the LDS Church and from seeing loved ones in the LGBTQ+ community struggle to feel like they have a place in the Church.Ben and I talk about what he does now to try and help his friends. He shares that he’s a great listener, but that sometimes it’s ha...

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0:00.0

Hi, friends. Welcome to Ask Dr. Julie Hanks podcast. I'm so glad you're here.

0:13.2

In each episode, I coach a listener through a tough question about mental health, personal

0:18.3

growth, family relationships, or faith journeys.

0:21.6

My goal is to help you think, feel, or do something differently to improve your life because

0:27.2

you listen to this podcast.

0:29.5

I want you to step into your power and create a life you love.

0:33.9

Let's get started.

0:36.3

I am so very excited to welcome Ben Shalati to the show today. Welcome, Ben.

0:43.2

Hello, Dr. Hanks or Julie. I don't know how you'd like me to call you, but I'm so happy to be here.

0:48.4

So happy to have you. And if you are not familiar with Ben, he is a therapist. He's also a podcast host. His podcast is

0:57.6

Questions from the Closet, co-hosted with Charlie Bird. And you can follow him on Instagram at Ben

1:04.0

Shalati and it's S-C-H-I-L-A-T-Y. And he's also a published author of a book called A Walk in My Shoes.

1:14.7

So we have a lot in common, Ben.

1:17.5

Oh, yeah.

1:18.0

Tell me more.

1:18.5

Well, therapist, podcast host, author, and Instagram personality.

1:26.1

So, and LDS background.

1:28.9

And, you know, anyway.

1:30.6

So cool.

1:32.0

All right.

1:32.6

So what is your question for me today?

1:35.5

You know, so this is something I have experienced quite a bit.

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