Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery. This is Anne. We always have women writing into us, telling us about how they're feeling about betrayal trauma recovery and grateful for our podcast and our services.

And so today I'm going to read to you some of these.

And then I've also had random women read some of the testimonials,

so it's not necessarily the woman who wrote it

is the one that's reading it and then

some of these women are the actual women but I'm not going to tell you who's.

So we'll just interchange between me reading some and then other women sharing theirs.

So when I finally found BTR, my husband and I had spent over 10 years and $10,000 in and out of couples count.

Even though my husband had been unfaithful

and had a problem with pornography and masturbation,

they looked at our issues as a quote,

full problem.

The multiple therapists we saw had years of experience, but they knew nothing whatsoever about betrayal trauma, sexual integrity issues or addiction or the emotional abuse involved.

In fact, my husband was able to successfully gaslight one therapist

to the point where he told me that if I would become a, quote,

safe person, my husband would quit lying to me.

And unfortunately, even though my intuition told me otherwise,

I took what he said to heart and I worked so very, very hard to become more safe. I bet you can get the result of all my

hard work. Yep. My husband lied to me again and again and again. It was never about me. Thankfully, everything turned almost on a dime the day I

read an article on Gaslighting, but one of the BTR coaches. This was one of the biggest aha moments of my entire life. It was almost as if I could

hear the angel singing in the background as 26 painful years of fog began to lift. I immediately set up a coaching appointment and for the first

time ever found someone who got it immediately. I didn't have to convince her or educate her,

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