So I'm going to tell you something that is going to change the way you look at narcissists.

It's going to change the way.

You look at every single insult they give you, every single discard, every single silent treatment, every single narcissistic rage.

As I diagnose narcissist, I can tell you, I never treated you based on your value.

I treated you based on my own.

The way I treated you is not based on your value, not based on your worth.

It's based on how I feel about myself.

If I or that narcissist ever made you feel small, it's because they felt microscopic.

If they called you unlovable, it's because they couldn't find a shred of self-love within themselves,

within their souls.

Today, we're talking about the mirror effect, y'all, the mirror effect, and why how I treated

you is a literal map, a literal designation of how I felt about myself.

Bring on the intro fire.

Right after the Super Bowl, you get super narcissists, right?

But that's what we're talking about today, y'all,

the mirror effect.

If you knew here, Lee Hammock diagnosed Narciss

and let's hop right into it, y'all.

Think of a narcissist like a house filled with, like, rotting garbage. And I know that's not, look, that's not difficult for a lot of y'all, right? You were like, well, Lee, I already think about it anyway. That's literally how I look at them, like a house filled a rotting garbage. Look, think of this shame.

The insecurity did not enough feeling that is piling up inside that narcissist like if I don't get rid of it I'll suffocate

it has to go somewhere if I don't get rid of these negative feelings these negative

thoughts they they were starting to eat me alive. So they have to go somewhere.

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