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Order of Man

How a Man Avoids the "Friendzone"| FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

Business, Health, Leadership, Relationships, Man, Society & Culture, Intellect, Style, Lifestyle, Money, Selfdevelopment, Wealth, Fitness, Selfhelp, Nutrition

4.89K Ratings

🗓️ 23 August 2024

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Can you spot the difference between being nice and being kind? Many people mistakenly view niceness as a surefire way to a woman's heart, but in this week's Friday Field Notes latest episode Ryan Michler reveals why this approach often leads to manipulation rather than attraction.

Ryan shares practical tips on clearly stating your intentions, understanding what women truly seek in a partner, and cultivating genuine romantic connections. Whether you're single and struggling with the friend zone or feeling like a roommate in your marriage, his insights will help you create and rebuild intimacy in your relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:43) Avoid Friend Zone, Rebuild Intimacy
(15:26) Assertive Romantic Relationships and Boundaries
(23:17) Mastering the Dating Game

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Transcript

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0:00.0

If you are fat, if you are lazy, if you're out of shape, if you are broke, if you are a miserable person,

0:07.0

then of course she's not going to be romantically interested in you.

0:11.0

If you're showing up as a fit, strong, healthy, capable man, she's going to be

0:16.4

attracted to that. If you are financially abundant, if you are killing it at work, if you're

0:22.2

purpose-driven, if you're motivated, if you're are killing it at work, if you're purpose-driven, if you're motivated, if you're a man of your word, if you have

0:26.5

integrity, and women have plenty of options. In fact, women have more options than men do.

0:34.0

You're a man of action.

0:36.0

You live life to the fullest.

0:38.0

Embrace your fears and boldly charge your own path.

0:40.0

When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. You are not easily deterred

0:46.2

or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is who you are. This is who you will become at the end of the day and after all is said and done you can call yourself a man.

0:59.0

Ah, the dreaded friend zone. It's an area of life that no man wants to find himself in, but I think just about every man has been confronted with, potentially, being friend zoned, and the only question is whether or not you either voluntarily or involuntarily found yourself in the friend zone

1:20.3

Voluntarily because if you think that maybe if you're kind and nice enough and do and say all the right things that she'll open her heart and legs to you,

1:29.0

involuntary in that maybe you found yourself in that position in a marriage or a relationship

1:34.4

and don't know how to get yourself out of it.

1:36.8

Today we're going to talk about four key things that you can do right now to ensure

1:41.4

that you do not end up in the friend zone and if you've found yourself in the friend

1:45.8

zone after years of marriage or continually dating as a single man what you can do to get out of it. Now before I get into it today I just want to mention my good friend speaking of friends and friend zone one area where it's appropriate is my good friends over at Montana Knife Company men. We are tool

2:06.7

wielding animals. We use tools whether it's knives or knife, whether you're out in the field, whether you're walking around on a day-to-day

2:23.4

basis, or maybe even the kitchen as you're preparing your food for your family and

2:27.3

friends, I want you to look no further than the American-Made Knife Company,

2:31.6

Montana Knife Company.

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