Hotline Calls: Rough Sex & Rim Jobs

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2023

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?

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Show Notes:

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Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
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“The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory
“Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory
Polyamory in BLACK!

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0:00.0	Oral sex is to be enjoyed by the giver and the receiver, which is why I do spend so much
0:07.6	time in smart sex when you book to have a whole chapter on how to actually receive and
0:12.1	give oral sex because I think a lot of us are pleasers, we get caught in the moment,
0:16.0	we think it's about our partner's pleasure, but there are ways for us to sort of have
0:20.8	our cake you need to. Give our blow jobs and enjoy them too.
0:25.3	You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize
0:29.7	your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. It's another hotline calls episode
0:35.2	and my wonderful and talented producer, Erica and I are answering more of your juicy questions.
0:39.7	And thank you all by the way for trusting us with your questions. I know they're intimate and
0:44.2	you really share so much with us and we really appreciate it. Today, we're tackling your
0:48.4	questions on how to set boundaries on blow jobs, how to help your partner ease into rim jobs,
0:54.5	what to do when your partner consistently goes to the strip club and navigating polyamorous
0:59.2	relationships as a non-primary partner. Again, if you want to leave a voicemail with your question,
1:04.2	please do, just call my hotline 559 talk sex or 559 825 5739. You can also leave me a
1:11.7	questions or message me, sexwithemily.com slash ask Emily. Please rate and review sex with Emily
1:17.4	wherever you listen to the show, my new articles, five libido boosting effort easy acts to try
1:22.4	in and out of the bedroom and is my penis normal or up on sexwithemily.com.
1:27.4	Art of one, enjoy this episode.

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