Fingering & Handjobs: The Art of Hand Play
Sex With Emily
Sex With Emily
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🗓️ 22 August 2023
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
Two of your most powerful sex accessories? Your hands. Hands set the tone of your sexual energy. For example, caressing their cheek while you make out versus pinning their hands down while you have sex. And while we talk a lot about what to do with our mouths or genitals on this show, today I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a hand job, and use your hands with sexual intention. Today, my Producer, Erica, and I first share how to penetrate a vulva with your fingers. We give you tricks to stimulate the labia and clitoris, different forms of pressure and touch, and how to find the G-spot when you finger. Next, we give the penis some love with hand job techniques and upgrades like toy play and perineum stimulation. Finally, we discuss secondary erogenous zones and answer your hand play questions.
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| 0:00.0 | The hand job is a lost art, and I don't know why we ever stop giving hand jobs. |
| 0:07.9 | Well, actually, I should say because the blow job has such great PR, everything's about |
| 0:13.5 | the blow job, the blow job, but I'm telling you, the hand job doesn't have to be something |
| 0:17.0 | that you leave in junior high school, the hand job can be just as hot. |
| 0:23.8 | You're listening to Sex with Emily, I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize |
| 0:29.0 | your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. |
| 0:33.2 | All right, today we're highlighting a humble but really hot sex act, the art of fingering, |
| 0:40.6 | or, as I like to call it, hand play. |
| 0:43.6 | And when I say hand play, we are talking about penises and vulvas here. |
| 0:48.2 | So many people, though, think of it as a stopover on the way to penetrative sex, but for |
| 0:53.2 | many vulva owners, they can actually orgasm more easily from a hand play than penetration. |
| 0:58.8 | And for penis owners, it can feel incredibly hot, too. |
| 1:02.3 | So let's get into it. |
| 1:04.2 | Please rate and review Sex with Emily wherever you listen to this show, my new articles, |
| 1:08.6 | best sex positions to use with a sex toy. |
| 1:11.5 | And is my penis normal? |
| 1:13.4 | Or up on sexthemely.com? |
| 1:15.2 | Art everyone, enjoy this episode. |
| 1:22.3 | So today's show is about something that everybody could use a little refresher on, including |
| 1:27.8 | myself. |
| 1:28.8 | I got inspired when prepping for this show because you know, there's a lot of things we |
| 1:33.0 | could do to spice up our sex life. |
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