Hotline Calls: I’m Sore from Oral Sex

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 April 2025

⏱️ 36 minutes

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You’re in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners. First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don’t look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment? Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily. Nobody does selling better than Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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0:00.0	A lot of Volvo owners feel this really intense pressure to orgasm and they just say, you know what,
0:08.1	I'm not going to get there. It's okay that you're having a good time. And I can tell you with somebody
0:11.8	who used to do that until I was about 35 years old, I just told my partners my orgasm didn't matter
0:16.9	and I wanted them to have pleasure. It's because I didn't know that there was more
0:21.1	possibility. I didn't know how to communicate that to partner, that it was okay to take time,
0:26.8	that I could let my partner know what I needed. And so I would expand the conversation with her
0:31.5	beyond just the alcohol and the medication. You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:41.5	I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:43.3	The hotline is ringing and we're taking your calls.
0:46.5	Today, producer Eric and I are answering your questions on how to tell casual partners
0:50.7	you're sleeping with other people, ADD medication affecting your sex drive and
0:54.9	orgasm, soreness after oral sex, and what does it mean when your partner's search history
0:59.6	does not look like you? Please rate and review sex with Emily wherever you listen to the podcast.
1:04.6	It just helps get the podcast out to more people like you. You can find us on all social media.
1:09.2	It is at Sex with Emily. And don't forget to check out
1:12.3	my new article, how to spring clean your sex life on sex withemly.com. All right, everyone, enjoy this episode.
1:23.8	Let's talk about making things easier, whether it's sex, relationships, or running a business.
1:28.5	And when it comes to selling online, I don't mess around. I use Shopify. It's been the backbone
1:33.9	of my own store. Shop sex with Emily, and since day one, honestly, I wouldn't trust my business
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